Most guys will have seen a dirty movie in their life and their unrealistic sexual fantasies start. Following a couple of interesting and at times quite sad emails, I would like to dispel a few myths for you gents.
Woman do not enjoy giving oral. Putting religious perspective aside (oral sex is questionable), for the most part woman have no desire to do this. You smell, the act itself is gross and frankly, what pleasure do we get from it….exactly. Don’t expect it.
She will be lying primed for you like a sexual Goddess. Sex for us is related to emotion. If you’re good to us and you treat us well then yes, we may well be kitted out in some Ann Summers goods. Act like an utter arse however and we really have no desire to be around you and whether we like it or not our body connects to this.
We are made in different shapes and sizes. The FF breasted, tiny waisted woman has probably been recruited by the porn industry. We have jiggle, big boobs, small boobs, no bum, some junk in the trunk.
Sex is not particularly glamorous. If you’re new to it then it will probably take you a while to actually understand your woman’s body and vice versa. You will not give her mind blowing orgasms as you are made to believe unless you learn to understand her. The aftermath is sticky, sweaty and a touch messy. The sex smell is nowhere close to even the cheapest bottle of perfume.
Now I’m no prude but I was a little taken aback by this next one. I currently live in a conservative society. Woman are not allowed to have sex before marriage and are expected to preserve their chastity. As a result, anal sex is rife here. Her husband, when she gets married, will never know his virginous wife was not so pure after all. Perhaps this is a plea to be above women as well, could you stop giving men this false idea that we enjoy being shagged like a dog.
All in all, despite all this, yes we do actually enjoy sex. A woman is a woman however, and not a figment of what the porn industry might have made you believe .